How Me And My Wife Got Hooked On Bondage

I don't really know when I first got hooked on bondage but when I look back I realize it started when I was in my early twenties. I was working as a bouncer/doorman at a local nightclub and it started as a small interest, slowly building to the point it is today. As part of my job I had to wear a stab proof vest and carry a pair of handcuffs. This was to protect me in case someone got out of hand and I needed to keep them under control until the police arrived. One of the best things about this job is the attention you get from the ladies while you're at work. It wasn't unusual for me to get friendly with one of the female guests and make arrangements for a date after I'd finished my shift at work. That's when my interest in bondage really kicked up a notch.

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These dates were when I first got to use my handcuffs for fun and I loved being able to use them on the ladies. Most of them loved the idea of being cuffed while I had sex with them and they liked all different kind of positions. Some of them liked having their hands cuffed in front of them while others enjoyed having their hands cuffed behind their back. One wild girl even wanted me to cuff her arm and leg together while she laid on her stomach then begged me to use her as my slave! She was one of my favorites and it really showed me how much fun bondage could be. I really think that this was what started my interest in bondage because once I got a taste for it I needed more. I loved my job, well I loved the perks of my job, but I had to quit after a few years. The extra money was nice and hooking up with kinky ladies was great but it was just too risky dealing with drunk, angry guests. Plus I was fining it difficult juggling having a relationship with a girlfriend while also trying to have a family life. Instead of getting my desire for bondage met by the sexy ladies at the club I decided to introduce my wife to it.

The Best Way To Bring Up Bondage

I thought the best way to bring up bondage was to do it in a fun way, I figured if she got upset then I could just pretend I was joking. One night when we were getting ready for bed I took my handcuffs out and asked if she was up for something a little different. I made sure to smile and keep my tone light when I asked so she wouldn't feel pressured by it. She laughed it off but I saw a look on her face that told me she was seriously thinking about it. A few days later we were in bed and making out when she said "Hey, didn't you want to bring something special into our bed?" The joker in me wanted to say "The cute blonde next door?" but luckily I kept myself in check and instead reached over to the bedside table. I found my handcuffs and held them up as I asked "So you're ready to try bondage?" Just like that I had brought bondage into our sex life. We did a few basic things with it at the beginning and the first thing we did as a couple was have her kneeling in front of me with her hands cuffed behind her back while giving me a blow job. She loved it so much that next time we had sex she let me fuck her doggy style while having her handcuffs behind her back. It was so hot seeing her like that that I lost control and fucked her so hard her pussy lips were red and swollen. I think that adding bondage to our sex life made it rougher and more enjoyable, adding a spark of excitement to it. Even though things started getting a bit wild between us I made sure to be careful and didn't do anything too painful. I think that when you're bringing something like bondage into the relationship it's best to start off slow and avoid pain otherwise you risk your partner not enjoying it andrefusing to go further with it. I think my approach really helped my wife get into it.

She Wanted To Try More Than Just Handcuffs

After we played around with bondage for awhile we decided to take things further. I don't know if 50 Shades of Grey inspired my wife or not but after she went to see the movie with some of her girlfriends she surprised me by telling me that she wanted to try more than just handcuffs. She wanted to try something kinkier and really expand our sex life. I wasn't going to let this opportunity slip away and went online to find some new toys for us to add to our very small collection. I ended up on eBay and found a really exciting bondage toy called a spreader bar. It's a bar that's about 50cm wide with straps at each end. It can be used on arms or legs and I thought of how great it would be for me. With my wife restrained with this simple toy her wet pussy would be exposed to me and I'd be able to do whatever I wanted to her.

I ordered it straight away and it arrived quickly which as great because we were dying to try it. First we tried it by having her lie on her back and using the spreader bar to keep her legs wide open but it didn't work for me. It was really difficult to pound her pussy like this because of the way her legs were spread. We then played around until we found a greatposition for her. She bent her knees and attached her wrists to the spreader bar as well because it had four straps attached to it so it could be used on ankles and wrists at the same time. She was still lying on her back and this position was perfect for both of us. She was wide open for me and I could fuck her pussy or her kink hole with no problem. This really took our bondage experience to a new level.

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The feeling my wife gets when she loses control and the power it gives me when I see her as my slave is the main reason why we are completely lost in the world of bondage. We think this will e a regular part of our sex life for years to come. There are just so many different bondage toys to try, not to mention all of the role plays and different situations we can try while exploring bondage. It's really going to bring us closer. Aside from bondage we're also thinking of having another person join us during one of our play sessions. If we do go through with this it will have to be something we both agree to and it must be a woman. Perhaps she will be the master and we’ll be her slaves or maybe I'll be in charge and have two women all tied up and eager to be played with. Maybe I'll get to play with the cute blonde next door after all if I can figure outhow to tell my wife. It might be best for us to find an extra partner on a bondage dating site like Bondage Partner. You can find thousands of people who are single or in a relationship that are interested in bondage. Some are experienced while others are new to the bondage lifestyle so it should be easy to find one who meets our needs.

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